Focused guide · family and dependents
This is a book about the handover.
Everything your child’s care depends on currently runs through you. The portal logins, the pharmacy that fills the prescription, the case worker who answers, the way the benefits letter gets handled. Most of it has never been written down.
- Four sittings of an hour — spread over a month, and the chapters are built that way
- Access is the hard part — legal authority, benefits rules, and who is allowed to be told
- It ends in a document — a record another person could pick up and act on
- 22 pages — PDF, instant download, no login
Not because something is going to happen to you. Because the work is easier now than it will ever be again.
What it is for
The week somebody else has to run it.
It is for the week you are unwell and somebody else can refill the prescription, reach the case worker, and answer the school without calling you.
It is for the birthday when authority over the medical and school records changes by operation of law, and you already knew it was coming.
It is for the year after that, when the plan is written down and one other person knows it exists and where to find it.
How it goes
Legal and benefits first, records after.
Work through it front to back. The legal and benefits chapters come before the record-keeping chapters because what you are allowed to hold, and what your child is allowed to own, changes what you write down.
What ordinary planning advice gets wrong
Most advice assumes you accumulate, you protect, and you pass it to competent adults who take it from there. Every part of that assumption may be wrong in this house.
Access, and legal authority
Not passwords. Who is permitted to log in, to speak to a doctor, to see a record, and what changes on a specific birthday whether or not anything else has.
Benefits, and the money trap
Money left directly to your child can suspend the benefits they live on. Refusing it can trigger a transfer penalty. Both are avoidable with warning and neither is fixable in hindsight.
Records, and the handover document
Which pharmacy, which dose, which sentence calms things down at four in the afternoon. The things a will has no way to carry.
The one sentence that matters most
A plan nobody else knows about is not a plan.
The work is not finished when it is written down. It is finished when one other person knows it exists and where to find it.
That is also why this is worth doing on an ordinary Tuesday rather than in a hurry. The people who might one day need it cannot ask you for it after the fact.
Honestly
Who this is for, and who it is not.
This is for you if
- Your child’s care runs through you and has never been written down.
- A birthday is coming that changes who is allowed to see what.
- You have a will and you know it does not reach any of this.
- You want to walk into an attorney’s office knowing the vocabulary and the questions.
This is not for you if
- You want the legal setup itself. That belongs with a special needs planning attorney licensed in your state, and the guide says so.
- Your situation is an aging parent rather than a child. That is a different guide, at $29.
If you want more than this
Two that sit beside this.
This guide is the handover for one person. If you want the same thing for your own digital life, or for a parent, these are the two.
The Digital Life Management System $179
Three months doing all of this for your own accounts, money, files and people.
Caring for an Aging Parent’s Digital Life $29
The same handover in the other direction, and a book about consent.
Before you buy
The questions people ask.
Is this legal advice?
No, and it does not replace an attorney. Chapters three and four describe what exists and what to ask about, so you walk into a lawyer’s office knowing the vocabulary and the questions. The setup itself belongs with a special needs planning attorney licensed in your state.
Is this going to take a weekend?
No. Four sittings of an hour each, spread over a month, gets most of it done. The chapters are built that way on purpose.
My sister already knows everything. Is this still worth it?
She knows the story. She probably does not know the logins, the case number, the appeal deadline, or where the last eligibility letter is filed. That gap is what this book closes.
Do I need an account to open it?
No. It downloads the moment you pay, and it is yours on your own computer. There is no account to make and no site to log back into.
Can I get a refund?
Yes. Read it, try it, and if it is not what you wanted, write to us within seven days and we will refund you.
Get it out of your head.
Four sittings, spread over a month, and a document another person could pick up and use. 22 pages, one payment of $19.
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